3 tops we defined:
Patriarchy & SexismBehaving
 * Men are supposed to make the first step in sexual approach
 * Men is the strong gender
 * →shows the 1st man - 2nd woman
System
 * Power lies in the hand of the man
 * Economic
 * Political/Decision
 * Religion (killed female; spiritual figures)
Male Socialisation
 * Being taught to act like a man
 * Hiding the emotions
 * Sports
 * Taking space
 * Expectation of intelligence through the models (→Artists, Philosophers)
 * Competition/pressure
 * Persistent socialisation
 * Sexual pressure
Male Privileges
 * masculine history & presence
 * societal expectation to not participate in care – work
 * perceived to be “smarter” and “competent”
 * perceived to be in leading role
 * given more space
 * societal acceptance to take more space than others
 * physical presence (in public)
 * no fear of sexual violence
 * strong role models
 * don’t need to think about pregnancy or contraception
 * relatively raised expectations
 *  we can decide if we want to think about sexism/male privilege or not
We tried to find examples from our experiences (RoR/Not RoR):
Expamles
 * Being raised to play soccer (story behind…)
 * RoR story (but also very much an everyday experience): 2 skilled persons were present but only the male was asked about stuff
 * Consent about 1 sexual activity doesn’t automatically include other activities
 * Expectations from yourself (or what you think society expects from you) and lack of talking (leads to things like harassment)
 * Adapting a specific masculine behaviour because of certain (but  common) situations (like feeling unsure of yourself → you base your  following behaviour in sexist normatives)
 * Men repeat content unnecessarily in groups (obviously RoR related too)
RoR Examples
 * easier for CIS-males to take roles in RoR (e.g. Maestra)
 * Taking notes is mostly done by women
 * Instrument balance (e.g. surdos)
 * Mansplaining in plenary         
   * for example: summarizing/ending a top because of a louder voice and not using hand signals)
 * Men ‘forcefully’ correcting other players playing unasked
 * Certain men reproduce more toxic masculinity (and less openness)
Finally we also came up with some approaches and ideas:
Approaches & Ideas
 * Asking more questions – speaking less about yourself
 * Actively talking about emotions
 * Observe emotions of others (but don’t assume ;))
 * Practice critical masculinity for example in your flat (eg. texts on the toilet door; having conversations)
 * Stop reproducing sexist behaviours because you think you are in a safe space and dont need to be a role model to others
Approaches & Ideas (RoR related)
 * Personally approaching people who reproduce forms of toxic masculinity
 * Speaking out loud if people behave badly (we even have the gender-sign for it)
 * FLINT-only Rehearsals
 * Find ways to get more FLINT-people to maestrate and to take the lead in general